Two Quotes of the Day August 6 2018

Here are the quotes of the day:

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I Found Out You Loved Me When

The script to the movie:

Couples often times have dinner and they sit around and talk about what they did during the day. Then they talk about what they are going to do tomorrow. Their conversations are often about tasks.

Couples are busy and they have their daily routines to attend to. They have projects to work on. They have their kids’ schedules to plan.

Sometimes couples should take some time to talk about the times they found that their significant other did something special for them and they felt loved by that simple gesture that their significant other did. You can start your conversation with when was the time you found out I loved you?

Couples could talk about the very first time they found out their significant other loved them. It could be something simple like, “I found out you loved me when you cooked me my favorite dinner.” Then the other can reply with, “I found out you loved me when…”

From this conversation you can talk about other times your significant other did things that you appreciated. This type of talk lets the other know that you appreciate the little things you do for them. It can open up the conversation and you could laugh about those things that happened long ago or things that happened recently.

This kind of conversation can re-ignite the passion you have for each other. Now that you know your loved one appreciates what you do, think of other things you can do to show your loved one you love him. It can be something simple like getting him an espresso or whatever his favorite drink may be from Starbucks.

Showing your love does not have to be expensive. It can be writing a poem for your loved one. It can be creating artwork for him. Be creative. You have so many things you can do and it will only take a little time out of your day.

I hope this video was helpful. Thanks for watching.

Say I Love You

The movie script:

Hello Therese Lawlor here so quote of the day is, “One simple I love you can change everything for the better.” I really think that is an awesome quote because when someone says I love you it does change things for the better. When someone tells you that he loves you that’s like not just you know oh I like you and you’re my crush. It’s like he really cares about me. It’s awesome because those words have a lot more meaning to it.

The words I love you can really cheer someone up so if your significant other is angry or sad let him know you love him if you really do love him. It makes such a big difference and it’s so easy to say. It’s just, “I love you.” I had a relationship in the past where an “I love you” saved it. I remember almost breaking up with someone because he was leaving the country. I was like so sad at the time, but when he told me he loved me I knew we could make our relationship work. I knew he loved me before he even told me he loved me, but when he communicated it, it really cemented it in my mind.

The words “I love you” carry weight for people because it might be ingrained in us as humans to accept that as something really meaningful. It might be because it is ingrained in us from the romance movies we watch where the lead characters tell each other “I love you.”

Make sure when you tell someone I love you to back it up with your actions. You can’t tell someone you love him, but not be there for him when they really need you. Make sure to respect your significant other’s wishes. You can’t be telling him I love you, but you are still going on dates with your ex-boyfriend.

Loving actions toward your significant other communicate I love you, but you must also actually say it. A good example is you can make your boyfriend his favorite dinner and during dinner tell him you love him. You could get your boyfriend flowers and then tell him you love him. There are many things you can do. Find out what your significant other really wants and do that for him and then make sure to tell him I love you and really mean it. That is it for my video. Thanks for watching bye.

Without You My Life Would Be

The script:

Hello, Therese Lawlor here so I found another really awesome quote. I thought this was a great quote. It’s a quote that is perfect for couples—either a significant other kind of relationship that does not have a label yet or boyfriend and girlfriend relationships or married couples. The quote says, “Without you, my life would be a little less bright, a little less fulfilling, and a little less fun.”

When you find someone that makes you feel awesome realize how important that person is. Not everyone makes you feel awesome and fills your life with brightness and sunshine. Also, know your life would be a little less fulfilling and you would have fewer things to look forward to without that person. Know that you get up every morning looking forward to spending time with that person even if it’s just sitting around and watching reruns of Friends.

Know that your life would be a little less fun without that person. Know that that person makes going to Starbucks to get coffee more fun. Know that that person makes the best food ever and you look forward to that person cooking dinner for you.

For those of you who are married, realize that life would be a little less fulfilling without that person. If that certain loved one was not around you would not have all of these kids and grandkids. Know that because you have been married for so long that your relationship might seem too comfortable and boring, but just make sure to realize that without this certain other person you would not have a family that cherishes you.

Sometimes you might find that significant other who keeps your house in immaculate shape because she cleans so much. Know that that is special to you and that you would have a very messy house without her. It is realizing simple things like this that makes a difference in your relationship.

If you are married, think of the house you have built together. Think of that vacation home the two of you go to every summer and realize how much you look forward to going to your vacation home. Remember all of the fun trips you have taken together and realize that thinking of those vacation memories make you smile. Make a scrapbook of your trips so the both of you can look through those photos and realize that what you have together is special and nothing should get in the way of your relationship. Know that life would be less fulfilling without this person around and how amazing your life has been for years because of the presence of this person.

That is it. Thanks for watching. Bye.

 

 

Unbreakable Relationships

The script to the movie:

Hello Therese Lawlor here. In this video I wanted to talk about how some relationships have an unbreakable bond. Sometimes you may encounter a special relationship where nothing can break your bond because your love with each other is like water and it can take the shape of any vessel.

You have to realize that there is a long lasting relationship out there you may find because you have confidence in how much you like each other and that affects how things work in your relationship. He might express to you how much he likes you and then you express to him how much you like him and it creates a loop of trust and care and forgiveness so that whatever challenges are thrown at your relationship, it does not destroy it.

For example, you might have to travel out of the country for a job and leave your boyfriend and he understands that you have to do that. He knows that you still love him lots and that you will still keep in contact with him and he will be fine with your decision of putting your career first and leaving the country for awhile.

Now there are some relationships where you cannot leave your boyfriend even though he knows it is important for you to leave the country because your job requires it. You will notice that that relationship does not feel right. The reason why it does not feel right is because your relationship’s glue is not strong enough. That might be caused by the lack of trust you may have for each other. Your boyfriend might also be the jealous type and does not want you to be away from his watch for too long.

When a relationship does not feel right to you, do not hesitate to voice that fact and perhaps end that relationship. When the relationship is made for you then you will make it through thick and thin and distance from each other will not be an issue. You needing to leave the country is obviously not your fault and you are not trying to hurt your boyfriend’s feelings. Your boyfriend should understand that and find ways to work around the distance between you and him.

There are lots of ways you can still stay in contact with each other. You can talk to each other via phone, Facebook Messenger, Skype, and much more. You can take time off from work and visit each other. If the relationship is really strong then you will find yourself going back to him when your job is done or he will make the sacrifice and move to the city you have moved to. Love works in mysterious ways and when you find that one person you will know it is the right one because nothing can break the love that you have for each other and your relationship will continue on no matter what. That is it for my video. Thanks for watching. Bye.

Loving Someone Deeply

Script to the video:

Hello, Therese Lawlor here so time for another relationship quote. “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” How do I interpret this? Well, being deeply loved by someone gives you strength so find that someone that loves you because you become strong. Having them support you in any way, shape, or form is awesome.

You loving someone gives you courage. It’s not easy to love someone deeply because you could get hurt. If you allow yourself to really love someone you’ll realize that you have the strength within yourself to really love someone. Sometimes you might really love someone, but you are afraid to admit it to yourself because you are afraid to put your feelings out there because you might end up getting hurt. Once you admit to yourself how much you really like someone, give yourself some credit for being brave. Realize that finding someone you really love is special and unique and cherish him. Make sure to take note that he is important to you and take time out of your day to talk to him and create a strong and healthy relationship.

For example, if he calls you or messages you and you are not busy, make sure to answer him. Try to do special things for him you know he would love like make him a cute little note. He will be thankful and perhaps give you flowers. Love is give and take and you have to give some to take some. Let him know how much he matters to you by giving him a hug or kiss on the cheek goodbye. Little acts of kindness like that make a difference.

Find that someone who loves you, but you also really really love back. You never know, you might find someone who will make you strong, will have your back, will help you accomplish your goals, entertain you, be there for you when you are sad, and help you see things clearer and give your life a new meaning and perspective. That is it for my video. Thanks for watching. Bye.

Share Your Feelings When You Are Upset

The Script:

Hello, Therese Lawlor here so the quote of the day is, “The value of emotions comes from sharing them not just having them.” To me, that means that if you have a boyfriend or husband and they have done something that has made you happy or has upset you, it’s a good idea to share them. If you are happy about something or if you are sad about something, it’s a great idea to talk about your feelings.

It is especially a good idea to let your significant other know that you are upset at the time you do become upset so they can fix the issue at hand. Sometimes it can just be a misunderstanding. Letting him know that you are upset will allow him to rectify the issue and cheer you up. If you let your boyfriend or husband know you are upset maybe he can do something for you to cheer you up like perhaps spend some quality time with you and go out to dinner where you can talk about your relationship and strengthen your bond.

For example, if you are feeling jealous because your significant other is on the phone with another girl, you should let him know because he will be able to tell you who that is. You may have misread the situation and he is actually talking to one of his best friends from his high school years and their relationship is strictly only friendship. Do not just bottle up your emotions especially if it has something to do with jealousy because your emotions might erupt and become uncontrollable. Often times, bottled up emotions are the cause of someone yelling at the other person and a behavior like that is often regrettable.

Once there are problems and you’re feeling upset, it’s good to address them at the time they occur because if it builds up and you’re just quiet about it, in the end, you end up just being like, “I’m done with this! I can’t deal with it anymore!” When you are addressing the problems that you have with your boyfriend or husband, do it at the time the problem arises that way you can pinpoint to him exactly what it was that upset you. You don’t want to let one thing happen, then a second incident happen, and then at the third time you get upset at him you end up blowing up and yelling.

It’s a great idea to address problem number one, problem number two, and problem number three because if you go allow problem number one and two just happen then on the third one you might end up becoming so upset that you do voice you are upset, but you are unable to remember the first two problems and you are only able to talk about the third problem. The third problem might seem insignificant, but you are like, “Actually the problem is bigger. This has been happening lots.” He might be like, “When has this happened?” And then you can’t remember the other times exactly and it just seems like you are acting irrational.

The key to a healthy relationship is communication. Letting someone know how much you love him will help your relationship grow. Letting him know when you are upset does not let your relationship wounds fester and end up completely ending your relationship. That is it for my video, thanks for watching.

Toxic Relationships

Hello Therese Lawlor here so the quote of the day is, “Difficulty does not leave you until you learn from it.” This is a great quote that can be applied to relationships. Sometimes when you are in a relationship you learn that certain relationships are not good for you because they are difficult relationships. In the case of a difficult relationship, hardship will not leave until you learn from it and leave the person.

An example might be you are in an abusive relationship with your boyfriend, but you do not leave your boyfriend because you rely on him to take care of you and he fulfills your emotional needs. In a case where it is an abusive relationship physically or mentally, you have to learn to leave that boyfriend.

You have to question yourself, “Why am I in this relationship? What is keeping me with him?” Your answer might be, “He pays for my apartment, food, and clothing.” Another answer you might have is, “He loves me. I need him because he loves me so much.” Sometimes you even convince yourself, “He loves me so much that that is why he is so jealous and becomes mentally abusive and/or physically abusive when he gets jealous.”

Once you find your answers within yourself then you will be able to think of other ways you can supply what you need other than relying on the abusive boyfriend. For example, if the abusive boyfriend is someone that helps you pay for your apartment, food, and clothing, you have to realize that maybe you can get a job and support yourself. If you cannot fully support yourself then perhaps you can find government assistance like food stamps and so on. You can even ask your family to help you and borrow some money from them. You have to figure out all of your options and see what you can do for yourself. It will not be an easy task, but it is a step by step process and the first part to completing independence from your abusive boyfriend is by figuring out why you need him.

You can also seek help from counselors. There are programs that are government funded like Empower Tehama that can help you leave your abusive relationship. They can help you through the entire process and you will not feel so alone.

If you rely on your boyfriend for love, ask yourself is there someone else that can love you and deserves your love. Do you have close friends you can turn to for emotional support? Do you have family members that you can talk to and spend time with that will be able to help you feel loved?

You have to realize that difficulty will not leave you until you learn and leave the toxic relationship. The whole process of leaving an abusive relationship may take a long time, but realizing that you need to leave that relationship is a key step in finding your independence. I hope this was a helpful video. Thanks for watching. Bye.